ThE EmAnCiPaTiOn oF pAmMiE

Monday, August 29, 2005

Sunset Monologue 75

Lemma Ask You Somethin!

Katrina is Upset! I hope that everyone that is being affected by Katrina is okay! She has been spitting fire our way here in Atlanta, but so far minor damager. Mini-me wanted to know how it is reaching us all the way over there (and yes you can use this) It’s like when you spin around with two cups of water – the majority of it is going to fall very close to the cup, but the sprays from the water can go across the street and actually wet someone.

I actually am pre-empting my first thoughts about a thread to venture into the territory below. I’ll post my originally scheduled entry tomorrow.

I believe the children are our future

Let’s be real, statistically folks over 35 chances of either remarrying or getting married for the first time are slim. Cut that in HALF when it comes to African American’s. Now it’s all good and dandy that we are all ‘hopeful’ but in reality – we just looking for someone somewhat sane and the rest we’ll deal with, lol

So we’ve outlined the bleakness of the situation, so let’s look at the ray of light – There are generations after us that have a chance. It’s not so sullied, it’s not so out of the question. They have a real shot at meeting someone special and continuing on the age old notion of happily ever after. At least that’s what we hope for them, I know I am hoping for that for mini-me.

Now comes the question, what responsibility do we have to them seeing as our own situation is so fucked up. Do we heap all our bitterness and discontent and proven wrong methods on them – or do we lift them up and somehow try to make a change exponentially even if we can’t get it ourselves?

We got a lot to go up against; the media, music, the condition of the world in general – but should we punk out and just say ‘the hell with it’ and let them flounder. Are we only responsible to those that come from our loins or is there a bigger fish to fry?

Can we agree that our generation is one of the most aloof, selfish and self centered we’ve seen in awhile. We grew up with the yuppies and buppies and it is showing.

Isn’t it irresponsible if we purposely guide a young person in a well beaten and wrong path. Has the foundation of morality change, just because the climate has? Has the word of all the religious text we read that preaches having a higher standard etc. become extinct because the Devil is hard at work and has taken most of us for a proverbial ride thru hell with gasoline drawers on?

If the youth (and I describe youth as anyone 10 years younger than you) comes to you for guidance, is it not our responsibility not to unload on them our jaded view of the world?

Good still conquers bad – so why give examples of bad and not at minimum speak about good?

We are all accountable for things? Monetarily, Religiously, Morally, Educationally, etc. Are we taking the bull by the horns or are we so busy wallowing in Sodom and Gomorrah, that all we can offer is a brief moment of clarity?

Makes me wonder?

Casting a Net Wider Than My Legs Can Open

There’s a lot of pressure in the world to be sexual. Sexual fulfillment is one of the basest actions that we have as a human and the only thing that separates us from a mere animal is that (1) we have sex face to face and (2) we have a higher brain capacity to think of circumstances. Otherwise, we pretty much are moving on impulse in that area. Sex is EVERYWHERE! You can’t escape it and I’m not talking about children – I’m talking about ADULTS. There is an undercurrent that if you are not being sexual, you are not being adult and real and relative, lol lol Can you believe that shit?! Grown up’s are putting pressure on other grown up’s about their sexuality. You either wit it or you square.

What about if you are trying to live your life in a broader scale than just your genitalia. What if you are still in control of your ‘urges’ like it was intended so that you can make wider choices and make your journey be about the total experience than the one that happened behind closed doors? What if the ability to be able to speak positively outweighs the need to orgasm? What if you are just not a follower?

Numbers or Quality

Hmm it is my understanding that the act of copulation goes as follows: the male penis becomes engorged with blood, making it become stiff for insertion into the female vagina which becomes lubricated to ease insertion. The male moves up and down to create friction which is needed for him to climax, thus releasing sperm for their journey up the vaginal tunnel thru the cervix to it’s destination the egg. A female climax which is a set, timed number of vaginal contractions helps move these sperm towards their destination, but is not necessary for the sperm to reach it’s goal.

Now that we got that out of the way – let’s expound. Humans no longer have sex just for procreation; we have sex for recreation and being curious creatures, we’ve add a whole arsenal of ‘things’ to do that differ from that basic function and move above. However that move is ALWAYS included in the mix. We also use methods to kill, maim and eliminate that little procreation function, thus freeing us up to try the other stuff. Questions like “I wonder if I put my mouth on his penis what it would feel like?” “I wonder if I insert something in the ass, will that produce a response?” are all things that make us humans ‘special’.

So now let’s be really real, exactly how many different things can you do before you are repeating and once we find something we like, don’t we tend to stick to that, lol. So exactly how many people does it take to come to an understanding about what you like and how you like it done? There’s a common belief that more equals better, I agree to that, but more shouldn’t have to mean MORE PEOPLE. The activity of sex itself is what can hone a person to be so-called good (because if there was EVER a relative thought process it’s about who is good at sex. You are only as good as the very last persons critique of you and those critiques whether good or bad are not up for discussion with others and can be manipulated to suit your own personal need for validation – YOU tell the story to your next person – they don’t).

Exactly how different can one person be from another that you need to engage in sex with a whole heap of people in order to ‘get it right’. Shouldn’t it be about at minimum tweaking, and shouldn’t at some stage CONVERSATION, put you on the right path to fulfilling your partners needs. Is there a time (especially as a female) that “I sucked 150 dicks might not sound so good” or “I got up in 300 women” just not fly. If you have to keep trying on others to figure out what you’re doing – doesn’t that say more about you than them. The ability to please one person good should outweigh the ability to screw many. Shouldn’t your journey be about bringing it in tighter as opposed to spreading it around thinly? Is everyone worthy of your dick/coochie? Do you always step away feeling worthy?

Post Script: I know I know lots of rhetorical questions, but sometimes I just wanna think aloud.

Posted by Pamalicious :: 7:09 PM :: 3 comments

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